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How Can You Prepare for Anal Sex Live Performances?

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Anal sex is not just any trending topic today. It has become a practiced art. Whether you are a curious newbie or any seasoned enthusiast, always preparing before anal sex on and off-screen will be the golden ticket to your safety and pleasure. If you are ready to take your cam game to another level with the right anal play, it’s time to skip cringe and dive in with these nitty-gritty prep tips and tricks. It will help you deliver the best anal cam shows, as nobody wants the painful or messy surprise mid-stream. The guide will also offer some post-play care ideas. So, make sure to read it to the end.

Tips to Prepare for an Anal Live Sex Performance

When planning to go ahead with the on-screen live anal sex performances, it can bring in fear and excitement at the same time. This is why having some tips beforehand will not just help but will also make you feel confident. Moreover, it will make your anal play the best, assuring a quality crowd and the gained dedicated base that will always love to return back to your shows, asking for more.

Know Your Audience and Let Them Know You

Anal cam shows are not one-size-fits-all. There are some viewers who crave sensual and slow penetration, while others choose to bring roleplay and wild toy play into the game. So, decide on what you are comfortable with.

  • Penis-in-anus (PIA) is classic, but it needs a lot of preparation.
  • Oral or rimming is quite popular, but that needs proper hygiene and trust.
  • Toys like beads, plugs, or prostate massagers always add variety.

Remember, stats do not lie, and there are many people who have tried the anal play. However, you must set the rules, and if you are new, start small, like the slim toys or the fingers, and then start working up.

Lube Can Be Your Next Best Friend

Like said above, the anus doesn’t self-lubricate. So, if you plan to skip the lube, it is a big mistake. Also, anal tears increase the risks of STIs like gonorrhea and HIV by 300% if you do it unprotected. So, opt for lubes that are based on,

  • Silicone- long-lasting.
  • Water- is safe with toys or condoms. However, reapply it quite often.
  • Oil- ultra-slick. Do not pair it with latex condoms.

Cleanliness is Right Next to Your Confidence On-Screen

There is no one who wants the messy surprises on the camera. So, prep smart.

  • Make sure to shower and wash the area externally using mild soap. Do not do any harsh scrubbing.
  • Enema is optional. The fleet enemas could clear the rectum. Just use it 1-2 hours before the show. Do not use it daily, or you will irritate the tissue.
  • Some quick fixes are baby wipes or the bidet (invest in it only if anal is your jam).

Some cam stars will also suggest you fast 12 hours before the shows. It helps to minimize the chances of accidents. However, remember, a bit of mess is quite normal. Just keep the towels right in front and use the dark sheets.

Toy Safety 101

Not every toy is butt-worthy. So, follow the rules mentioned below.

  • Use toys that are flared-based. It will help prevent the ER trips.
  • Use the toys with body-safe materials, like glass, silicone, or metal. You must, at all costs, avoid the porous jelly toys.
  • Keep checking over the size progression. Begin with the 0.5-inch diameter plug. Then, size up weekly.

Condoms Must Be Non-Negotiable

STIS, they do not care if it’s IRL or cam. The anal STI rate is already 18x higher than that of the vagina. So, make sure to use the condoms and swap them when you plan to switch from the anal to the vaginal play.

You can even use the dental dams for rimming. Also, the colored condoms, they discreetly hide the residue. So, try them.

Bonus: the condoms will always make the toy cleanup easy. Just slip one over the dildo, and you will, in seconds, be camera-ready.

Warm-up and Do Not Skip FOREPLAY

Your sphincter, it is not a light switch. So, warm up for the better shows.

  • Make sure to massage. Relax using the sensual rubdown.
  • Use finger play. Yes, you can start with the one-lubed finger and then two.
  • For the toy prep, insert the plug-in for 30 minutes before you go live.

Remember not to rush. Tease the audience and make slow builds while you keep the tips rolling in.

Positions That Will Pop On-Camera

Choose the angles that flatter and then feel good. You can go with the doggy style, which shows depth and curves. You can even try missionaries with legs up to highlight the penetration.

Cowgirl, too, is a good position as it lets you control the pace and also the camera angle.

Communicate, Even When You’re Going Solo

Even the solo cammers need to perform with comfort. Also, moan, tease the viewers, and, yes, describe your sensations. If it’s a partnered play, use the safe word (red, yellow, etc.) or the feedback (faster, deeper, etc.).

Aftercare to Look Good and Feel Better

Post-show care will help prevent infections and soreness. For it, choose,

  • Warm bath- Epsom salts always soothe the muscles.
  • Hydrate- water flushes the bacteria from the UTIs.
  • Check for any injury- see if it’s bleeding. If yes, see the doctor.
  • Clean the toys using the anti-bacterial spray.

Mindset is What You Can Own

So, do it. Remember, anal camming is huge work. So, charge your worth based on your humor and confidence.

Final Words

Be it lube, preparation, or needed communication, before or after the anal play or even in between, it will all make your cam show a perfect win. Just remember that your comfort must translate to better content and some bigger tips. Now, go ahead and break the internet, but safely. Also, follow the guide to ensure your comfort as well as best performance.

The Art of Effective Sexting – Tips from Arousr Model Anahathor

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Sexting is the modern-day form of intimacy, and it’s no longer limited to just long-distance relationships. With mobile phones being ubiquitous, sexting has become a norm that people engage in to spice up their relationship and express their sexuality. However, not everyone is an expert in sexting, and it can backfire if it’s not done right. That’s why we reached out to Arousr model Anahathor, an expert in adult chat, to share some tips on how to sext effectively and avoid awkward situations.

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5 Facts About the Female Orgasm All Men Should Know

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What You Need to Know About the Big, “O.”

The female orgasm can seem intimidating, but as long as you know some key points about it you’ll find it quite demystified. There are lots of things men THINK they know about women and orgasms, but oftentimes misinformation is treated as fact (she most likely won’t get off from sex alone), and myths always persist (your penis size matters very little in regards to her orgasm). These 5 facts about the female orgasm are all backed by research and should be known by all men (or other women) who want to get a lady off. Read on for advice that should make giving your woman pleasure less worrisome and more-so something you’re excited to do!

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Top 10 Sexy Phrases To Turn a Cam Girl On

Words Have Power

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One of the most powerful tools we have as humans are our words. A compliment can brighten someone’s day, an insult can ruin it, and a sexy phrase can get us in the mood better than almost anything else. When you’re talking with a cam girl you might be a bit nervous or unsure what to say to assist with setting a good and raunchy mood. Don’t fret, however! Here are 10 sexy phrases that are sure to help turn a girl on, organized from innocent, to suggestive, to outright dirty.

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The ultimate guide on becoming a cam girl in 2020

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Considering a career in camming? this is the guide for you!

If you have ever heard about successful cam girls who easily earn $10,000 – $15,000+ a month just from tips alone and you have ever thought about becoming one of them, but have wondered, “Where do I even start?” then you’ve come to the perfect guide! This extensive guide breaks-down what you need to do and consider before starting to perform online, how to get ready to start performing, what your first live session may be like, and key things to remember as you start your new business.

This guide strives to be the ultimate one in 2020 and to not only help you get started but serve a reference while you get your footing in this exciting and profitable field. Read on below and watch as you go from being in the dark to feeling like a pro!

Things to do and consider before starting live shows:

Before you even start buying what is needed for webcam chat, you need to do the smart thing a person does before embarking on any new career–engage in research! There are a number of things that a wise to do and think about before you start streaming your shows, and the most important steps will be listed now!

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